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Your closest friend is in crisis and leans on you daily — but it's eroding your own health. Do you hold a firm boundary, knowing they may spiral?
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Why this dilemma matters
There is no clean answer here — the dilemma forces a trade between two legitimate moral claims. Choosing “Set the boundary. Your wellbeing matters too, even if they struggle without your full support” prioritises a more principled outcome; choosing “Keep showing up fully. Their crisis is real, and withdrawing now feels like abandonment” gives more weight to a more pragmatic outcome.
Worth asking yourself
- Would you defend this choice to someone affected by it?
- Is the principle worth the concrete cost?
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