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Accetteresti di adottare un bambino con gravi disabilità cognitive, sapendo che la tua vita familiare, il tuo tempo libero e le tue finanze verranno completamente stravolti?
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Why this dilemma matters
Relationship dilemmas weigh affection, honesty, and personal cost in close ties. Choosing “Sì, perché ogni essere umano merita una famiglia e un'infanzia amorevole, indipendentemente dalle sue condizioni” prioritises short-term comfort for them; choosing “No, perché devi considerare realisticamente il tuo limite emotivo e pratico nel fornire le cure necessarie” gives more weight to long-term respect from them.
Worth asking yourself
- Are you protecting them or yourself?
- Does silence still count as honesty here?
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