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Il tuo migliore amico attraversa una crisi profonda e si appoggia a te ogni giorno. Stai esaurendo te stesso. Cosa fai?
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Why this dilemma matters
These questions ask what your love is actually willing to give up. Choosing “Continui a esserci per lui, anche se senti di non avere più nulla da dare” prioritises protecting the relationship; choosing “Gli dici chiaramente che hai bisogno di spazio, sapendo che potrebbe viverlo come un abbandono” gives more weight to honouring the truth.
Worth asking yourself
- Would you want the other person to make the same call?
- Are you protecting them or yourself?
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