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Imporre un ordine 'corretto' per la colazione è un atto di cura verso gli altri o una violazione della loro autonomia alimentare?
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Why this dilemma matters
In close relationships, the kindest choice and the truest choice rarely overlap perfectly. Choosing “Condividere le proprie abitudini alimentari è un gesto d'amore e responsabilità verso chi ami” prioritises who you want to be for them; choosing “Ognuno ha il diritto di mangiare come preferisce: imporre un metodo è controllo mascherato da cura” gives more weight to who you actually are.
Worth asking yourself
- Are you protecting them or yourself?
- Does silence still count as honesty here?
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