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Saresti disposto ad adottare un bambino con gravi disabilità cognitive, consapevole che ciò richiederà sacrifici totali e rinunce alla tua autonomia personale, per offrirgli una vita dignitosa?
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Why this dilemma matters
These questions ask what your love is actually willing to give up. Choosing “Sì, perché ogni essere umano merita amore e una famiglia, indipendentemente dalle sue condizioni” prioritises protecting the relationship; choosing “No, perché non mi sentirei in grado di garantire le cure necessarie senza compromettere la mia stabilità emotiva e finanziaria” gives more weight to honouring the truth.
Worth asking yourself
- Are you protecting them or yourself?
- Does silence still count as honesty here?
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