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You promised never to put your parent in a care home, but home care is breaking your health and finances. Do you break the promise?
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Why this dilemma matters
Loyalty dilemmas put personal bonds against broader honesty or fairness. Choosing “Yes. A promise cannot destroy both lives” prioritises keeping a private trust; choosing “No. Some promises define who we are” gives more weight to preventing a wider harm.
Worth asking yourself
- What kind of person do you want to be in this story?
- Whose trust would you protect first?
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