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Your 14-year-old's friends all have 24/7 GPS sharing with their parents. Your teen says it's normal now. You grew up with none of it.
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Why this dilemma matters
Relationship dilemmas weigh affection, honesty, and personal cost in close ties. Choosing “Turn it on. The baseline of safety has shifted; refusing makes them the exception” prioritises short-term comfort for them; choosing “Refuse. A teen who is always tracked never learns to be trusted out of sight” gives more weight to long-term respect from them.
Worth asking yourself
- Are you protecting them or yourself?
- Does silence still count as honesty here?
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