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Why this dilemma matters
In close relationships, the kindest choice and the truest choice rarely overlap perfectly. Choosing “Sì. Il partner merita la verità” prioritises who you want to be for them; choosing “No. I sentimenti non sono tradimenti se non diventano azioni” gives more weight to who you actually are.
Worth asking yourself
- Which version of the relationship are you choosing?
- Would you want the other person to make the same call?
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