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You can stop your fixation only by cutting off someone who did nothing wrong. Do you do it?
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Why this dilemma matters
Relationship dilemmas weigh affection, honesty, and personal cost in close ties. Choosing “Yes. Self-protection can require distance” prioritises short-term comfort for them; choosing “No. They should not lose a friendship for your feelings” gives more weight to long-term respect from them.
Worth asking yourself
- Would you want the other person to make the same call?
- Are you protecting them or yourself?
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